I telephoned my grandmather who live alone at the house, a two-floor large building in our villige comparing with others'. She never talk about the loneliness. She and my grandfather don't get along well, and they seldom talk in my memory. therefore my grandfater live in my uncle's house which have 30 minutes driving distance from our house. My relatives rarely talk about the reason why they broke up. my grand father, my father and I have the similar characters, well-behaved, not good at communication. I always think my favourate of silence hand down by heredity.
They have another relationship, brother and sister, which astonished me when I heard from my mather last year. Fortunately, They have no bloodshed. The fact is that my grandmather's birth father dead when she is young, and by accidently my grandfather's birth mother dead too. In this situation, her mother brought the children coming to our county and marrid with my grandfather's father. This is really complicated. In the old age, if the man wanted to marry a woman home. they must send the woman's family some money which is depend on how much the female's family want. As a result of this, my grandfather married his sister, subsequently, had three sons and 2 daughters. Sometimes I was confused that if they did't love each other, why they have so many children.
I experienced a quarrel between them when I was about 12, I stood at my grandfather's side cause he was so silent when my grandmother shouted at him. I really cannot stand that, and I always thought my grandmother was a little selfish and partial between my elder female cousin and me.
Now I have grown up, it is really shame for what I've done that time. There is nobody in world don't afraid of loneliness. If I did'nt need to take the ILETS, I would back home stay some time with her.
These days my cousin stay with her. because he played computer all the time, his father sent him to the country.